This article was published in the June 2015 issue of Her Family.
Chris Hughes is a father of three who spends most Monday and Wednesday evenings toiling away in his upstairs workshop on Farnam Street. It is a curious space filled with antiquities and tools akin to his tradeโcustom leather bags.
He fulfills orders from across the world, assembling packages containing his hand-constructed waterproof tote bags, briefcases, and artisanal aprons crafted with quality materials.
โI wanted the items that I designed and sold to have a timeless quality to them. I wanted someone to look at them years in the future and say โlook at this artifact,โโ Hughes says. Hence, you have the evolution of the name of his business, Artifact Bag Co., a thriving online business that Hughes started more than four years ago
Hughes says that being an entrepreneur is a constantly evolving process of new experiences. โThe minute I get comfortable with something, I take on a new challenge. Iโm always throwing myself into the fire so that Iโm never comfortable. When you come home from days of that, you really just feel like your legs are rubber bands. You feel like you could just collapse.โ
In a flip-the-switch moment, Hughes dons his daddy hat before stepping in the door at home. โThe minute I cross that threshold into my house, Iโve got two boys and a girl that are jumping up onto me. I have to kick in the afterburners. I just have to be present because for them theyโre fresh and they want to see their dad,โ he says. His children are Kit, 6, Levi, 4, and Jane, 2.
Hughesโ schedule has him spending weekdays at his shop, surrounded by a small team of craftsmen and craftswomen who assist him as business demands. He also works until almost 11 p.m. a few nights of the week and at least one weekend day.
He says his demanding schedule sometimes frustrates his children. โIt pulls me away from them so often.โ But they do enjoy visiting their dadโs cool space. โTheyโre fascinated by the workspace because of all of the machines and all of the materials.โ
His wife is Beth Hughes, who works as a speech-language pathologist at the RiteCare Speech and Language Clinic located in the Munroe-Meyer Institute at the University of Nebraska Medical Center. The couple went to school together at Westside High School, but didnโt actually date until years later when the two crossed paths again while Beth was in graduate school.
Beth says that having an Internet-based business can make finding the right balance between family and work challenging. โThe Internet never stops. So itโs not like Chris can just walk away at 5 p.m. and say, โOh, the shopโs closed for the day.โ There are always more things to do in terms of emails to respond to and social media stuff to post and promote and things to research for projects that he has coming up,โ she says.
But knowing that the family sets aside evenings for sit-down meals and plans one day out of each weekend to spend together provides a home base for sanity. โGetting some sort of schedule just so that we all know what to expect has been helpful,โ she says.
As a mother, Beth says she feels privileged to help her children grow and develop into the people that theyโre meant to be. โI like to help foster their interests and teach them things and to see things through their eyes. Itโs just fascinating.โ
She finds strength in her support system of mommy friends. โIโm learning every day and I make mistakes every day. Iโm very fortunate to have a great group of friends whoโve been on this parenting road a little bit longer than I have that I can learn from,โ Hughes says.
The kids keep active with swim lessons, fishing, tee-ball, and riding bikes. Some Sunday mornings, one might find the Hughes family over at the Bagel Binโa family favorite. They also love goingrto the zoo.
Friday nights are family movie nights. โIโll make popcorn on the stove,โ Chris says. โThey love watching Star Wars over and over again. They like that good versus evil kind of stuff.โ
Hughes is inspired by his childrenโs creativity. โAll of the sudden a card table becomes a fort to drape blankets over, or a stick becomes a rifle. Theyโre just constantly interpreting their environment in very imaginative ways.โ
โThey havenโt really been taught that they are not artists or those other things that happen in life when people dash peopleโs dreams and hopes. They are still very optimistic,โ he says.
โIn many ways, I never lost sight of that either, so on some level, I relate with them.โ